ARE THERE ANY REAL HONEST MENS LEFT??/

Why is it that sooo many mens will talk to you via phone,internet,etc. They say that they are GODLY..they say they are sensitive,caring,good listener,etc. Then when it comes to meeting this man in person..ITS a 360 turn-around. Nothing at all that you heard,or read about this person. WHY IS IT SOOO HARD FOR A MAN TO SEE A GOOD WOMAN,WHEN SHES RIGHT IN HIS FACE.??/..PLEASE HELP ME TO UNDERSTAND???